Most people look at single men and don’t think that they have the slightest clue about Relationships. Truth is, you don’t have to be in a relationship(s) to know a thing or to about them. There is this little thing I like to call Observation.
A single guy who has never had a single date, might know more about relationships than a guy who’s been on hundreds of dates. See the big picture here? The single guy can learn from every one of the dating guy’s mistakes, that is if he follows the Golden Rules of Learning.
Listen, Absorb, and Apply. Those are the three Golden Rules of Anything really.
Let’s take dating for example; the single biggest problem I’ve seen with dating, is that Guys don’t (Listen.) Yep, that one little issue is the single biggest cause of break ups in America’s Young Adults today. Men just don’t listen.
They’ll completely ignore half of what’s said, one fourth of what’s said they only catch half of it, and the other fourth, men tend to be on the So So page.
What’s the So So page? Men listen up, because you’ll need this piece of advice. The So So page is when Men are listening, but don’t say anything or do anything.
For example: when a Woman offers a suggestions and the man just ignores it, merely because a Woman offered it. That’s the So So page. Ladies, this issue can easily be fixed……
Absorbing what you learn is a big part of life. We can’t live with out learning, otherwise, we’d be a broken sponge. That’s right, learning is a lot like a Sponge, first you have to absorb it, in order to use it.
But, don’t absorb too much, otherwise all that information will overflow and be lost, or simply put, useless. It’s just like anything else you do, from time to time you need a break.
Applying what you learn is by far the most crucial part of any relationship. If you do something wrong and you continue to do it, time and time again, of course she’s going to get pissed of or even leave your lazy butt. Because either A) you’re not learning anything or B) you’re not applying what you learn.
See, absorption and Application work hand in hand. If you’re out their and your Truck breaks down? What do you do? You learn what you need in order to fix the problem and go about fixing it.
Guys listen to this, because I’m only going to say it once. Women, are a lot like Trucks, they need regular maintenance and lots of TLC. Otherwise, you may as well hang up the hat and boot yourself out the door.
Relationships don’t have to be hard, nowadays, young adults tend to over complicate things. Go simple, or go home.